Friendship


Setiap orang perlukan kawan, teman, geng, orang-orang yang kita boleh berhubung.

Tapi apakah itu kawan?

Adakah geng warung kopi, kawan seperjuangan, kawan lepak, kawan-kawan sekolah?

atau kawan-kawan yang bersama kita semasa kita kecil?

Tiada prejudis, perbezaan, pertandingan dan persaingan.

Sehingga satu hari kita belajar untuk buka mata, dan kita nampak dunia bukan lagi sekadar hitam dan putih.

Tapi zaman sekarang ini nak buat kawan memang cepat, senang dan pantas. Tak perlu keluar rumah, bangun kerusi.

Tenung skrin komputer, ‘keletak, keletuk’ sahaja keyboard.

Boleh suka benda yang sama, tak suka pun tak apa.

kenal, tak kenal, belakang cerita.

risiko kita tanggung sendiri, kerana persahabatan adalah satu pengembaraan yang tidak boleh diduga.

-Quote from KAMI the series-

Really sorry because I’m not good at writing poetry or such…Just feel that the quote is very much related to this post…Just paste it here…

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Yeah..yeah..whatever…

I started to realized how beautiful friendship is when I lost most of it…I mean the friendship. 21 years has past and yet I don’t really know who my real friend is?? Is Abu my friend or Rogayah, perhaps Ali, Joyah, Supri Sufian??….I just don’t know. I never had one that last for longer than 5 years??… mmm I guess.. (Call me mr. weirdo)

You…yeah you who’s reading this entry…Can we be considered as friends?… Never met, never talk each other, never know anything about each other.. OK whatever your answer is don’t tell me cause you’ll broke my heart. This friendship thingy is very complicated actually. No benchmark that have been set for one to declare that “hey you’re my friend”, and there’s no name tag or an ID card to justify “we are friends”.

What do we expect from this so called “friendship”. Everyone expect the very best out of their friendship. The only problem is they themselves fail to play their role. People always expect to get more benefit towards them in whatever thing they’re doing, that is natural human behavior. Friendship, relationship, sheep??…ha…ha.. and just about anything they will want more (self centered).

As for me, I don’t expect anything promising from my friends. I never expect them to told the truth every single time. That is almost impossible for us I’ll say… (only our prophet and “malaikat” are capable of doing that). It is okay (just okay….OK) for you to lie if it’s for good. I’m not encouraging people to be dishonest but we’re just a human being (just…). No matter how good you are, no matter how “alim kucing” you are don’t you tell me you never lie…

Ok…enough for now…though its sound like a bit hanging…I’m running out of ideas

p/s: why this few days I felt very “malas” to write??

11 Responses to “Friendship”

  1. narcissuslover Says:

    *sigh*
    My fav quote: A friend is someone who understand ur past, believes in ur future and accepts u 2day just the way u r..

    Yerp.. friendship is a complicated thing!
    The truth is, i own a small circle of friend..
    Ok mr.weirdo! ur journey is still long (perhaps..) n i believe u will meet someone..
    I’m grateful because i meet mine, about 5+years ago…
    even though I just mingle around her less than one year (she moved to somewhere else after that) n seldom in touch with her..
    our friendship.. never end!
    maybe it was because we trust and understand one another…
    i just dont know how to define our friendship.. it was a bliss!
    *sigh*

  2. afshad Says:

    waH..
    I love Kami..!
    hmm supri supian..??haha that tickles me..well I agree with narcissuslover..
    friendship is indeed a complicated thing..
    we can have all the friends we can in the world but for them to be a true friend is by far unfeasible..
    Dun worry man..in friendship, we just can give all the best to our friends even tho they never realise or heed that..
    be kind..be urself..let them see the best of us but do not let them pijak kepala kite..
    yes u r my friend..my on9 blogger friend..!
    :)

  3. pandagumuk Says:

    sgt complicated.da 22 thun pun x terungkai lg.urgh.

  4. t.a.t.a Says:

    waaahh tukar cat rumah jugak ye… heheh nice la! :)

    hmm ada quote dari KAMI..
    ayumiii… mana ko ni… ada KAMI ni…
    hehehe

  5. AyUmi Says:

    yep..yep!! aku mari. aku mari.. sori arini busy gila la nak melawat blog kawan-kawan. boss aku suruh tambah pages pada report jadi 60 pages T_T – in english, please note betapa seksanya aku nak buat karangan dah la pasal accounting err.. err ok.. takde kaitan dengan entri yusrie.gagagaga~

    eh. cat baru lagi cantik and tersusun laaa. kool!

    i love KAMI the series. hahahaha. sebab?

    I LOVE ABU! hoyeah~

  6. AyUmi Says:

    t.a.t.a : blah la lu… aku tukat cat sebok suruh aku tukar to the previous one balik. yusrie tukar beriya kau puji. begini la kamu! begini la kamu! ini kah nama nya keadilan??!!!!

    ciss.

  7. ahmadyusrie Says:

    saffa: nice quote…
    afshad: yeahh!! great dude…friends…
    pandagemuk: yerp indeed…
    tata: uhuhu memang nice pon…
    ayumi: uhhuu makasih….me suke kami cuz i love Lyn…ahaha “garangnye..tapi cute” kate Abu…

  8. t.a.t.a Says:

    eh AyUmi, mana keadilan?
    kat selangor kat keadilan?
    hahahah :lol:

  9. t.a.t.a Says:

    ehh sila betulkan ya
    bukan *kat* keadilan tapi *kan*

    owwh tengah hari ini hamba belum makan lagi..
    lapo!

  10. hamzani Says:

    I luv that… Nice Blog dude.. aNice writing… welll kawan ni bukan tempat untuk begantung…. tapi anugerah terindah… I lost my besh friend when I was in form 3.. after that.. I never find my best ‘human being’ besh friend because.. My best friend for now is my laptop, my hp and my mp3 player.. They will listen to me… ahaks… just be urself.. and find frinds………….. tq friend….

  11. zool Says:

    Ntahlah kawan itu sukar untuk diungkapkan..
    Kadangkala kawan yang disangka kawan mampu menjahanamkan..
    So selalulah berpada-pada..

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